In the prodigal son story (Luke 15), the father responds to his child's mistakes with compassion, running to embrace him.
How do we handle our kids' failures?
When children fall short of expectations, harsh criticism often follows.
This sows seeds of insecurity, emotional detachment, and hardheartedness.
Kids naturally make mistakes exploring life's complexities.
Responding with rejection ties their worth to perfection.
Hearts harden as kids protect themselves from disappointment.
What if we reframe errors as learning opportunities?
Fearing constant judgment for imperfection, children build walls, hesitating to take risks or try new things.
Internalizing inadequacy impedes growth and hardens hearts.
The prodigal's father models unconditional love despite failure.
Can we accept our kids' mistakes as part of growing up?
Embracing failure as normal develops resilience and a growth mindset.
Praising effort over perfection, giving constructive feedback - this encourages kids to pick themselves up.
Note: this isn't lowering expectations or being soft, but building confidence in them to listen to counsel.
Hard hearts tune out; soft hearts listen in.
Nurturing trust enables meaningful discussions around taking responsibility.
"Encourage one another daily...so none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness" (Hebrews 3:13).
Encouragement and acceptance yield receptive hearts in children.
Let's parent more like the gracious father, nurturing strong connections with gentle wisdom.
